I want to see if I understand correctly that the spec that is the culprit in inducing these oscillation problems in amps is capacitance?Yes.
And that as long as I keep that spec under 300-400 pf/foot, I am OK?For typical lengths, say up to 12 feet or so, I would be confident of that. As I indicated, I am not basing that on any precise analysis, and a precise analysis would be dependent on the design of the particular amplifier. But I believe I am erring in the direction of being cautious, and so chances are that values that are somewhat higher than that would be ok too, at least in most cases.
Are there any other cable specifications that would ruin an amp?No, I can't envision any other way in which a speaker cable could harm an amp, assuming of course that it does not have a short between the two conductors as the result of a defect.
Regards,
-- Al