Comparing live versus recorded sound is only meaningful for unamplified music. The typical amplified concert manipulates the sound .
Not all concert venues were designed with an acoustics as the primary consideration. The OP describes a chapel. Places of worship may not have taken into account how well they might project any music except choir and organ. A Piano Quartet is a very different kind of ensemble..
Recordings tend to spotlight certain instruments. Compare the sound of a violin in a concerto on a recording versus what it actually sounds like in most concerts. The typical recording makes it sound much louder than the concert experience