Well, now we are getting into a more nuanced discussion. The "wall of sound" developed by Phil Spector was never "realistic." Certainly an 8' wide left to right recording of the piano keys is something you'd never experience in real life.
I also take exception to the idea that all of us want a live recreation of music all the time. Most of the time I DO NOT. Live dynamic range reproduction of The Cult is just not what I need most of the time.
One last thing, and this will make some of you apoplectic... the most objectively neutral speakers tend to suffer in terms of perceived imaging, though they tend to reproduce live jazz/orchestral imaging more ACCURATELY.
BTW, I take no position on what you should strive for or like. Your money, your sacrifice, get a system that you like to enjoy, but there are a lot of times when the claim is that a listener is striving for ultimate realism... and they aren't.

