@dover your prescience is noted. whilst i am thrilled to be rid of the copper (which sort of bloats the big stuff and kills the tiny stuff - good for some systems but not for mine at this stage i think) - i was then this morning struck by the sound of the 2 inch thick AS black stuff atop the verdier aluminium platter. i can hear a beautiful and distinct note but then i can also hear its shadow bouncing around. i think as you predict i get reflection off of the aluminium and the net result is slightly grey, amusical and blurry.
so now to the mats!
first i tried the vertere mat which is supposed to insulate/absorb/be dead. yes better than nothing but not good. i hate how dead it is.
second i tried a spec platter. this is a very good platter. it sounds musical at least. i think i would prefer none though.
i appreciate your comments, especially the ones about the "train" that one has to choose to get off as it never arrives at a destination. i hear you.
i think i will get one of my tonearm mounts shortened so that i can give the plain verdier platter a try. but on other hand the AS platter has a void under it. this is supposed to be filled with silicon oil. perhaps this would stop the sound bouncing off etc?

