I’ve decided to go with the preowned TMR.
that voice inside my head has been saying exactly what @soix said, its a no brainer. Big savings of money, and the security of returning if need be. I have discussed the speakers in detail with TMR and have pretty much got all of the information I can from them. I have dealt with them many times in the past and have never been disappointed.
the new speaker dealer is very reputable, but they have their policies and Home demos and returns are not part of them.
thank you everyone for taking the time to help me out!
Bows to you alll!

