Would it be fair to say (or infer) that some of these boutique fuses are somewhere along the arc between a bog standard fuse and those FNM fuses? That they are definitely a step up but still nowhere near a FNM fuse? That could be why we hear a difference: they're simply a better made fuse, kinda like what you got with the FNMs. Just saying..
All the best,
Nonoise

