So, I have seem to have an answer. Select table and arm first, and then look for the cartridge that best matches. Not sure why the other way wouldn't work just as well-- all things being equal.
I was leaning toward the VPI Classic or a Pro-Ject Deck or Music Hall 9.1, but now I think I may take a hard look at a Thorens TD-160. Not sure what to do about the arm for that table. Also considering Wilson Benesch Full Circle.
I want something that compliments my current system, but I don't really want to spend over $3500 all-in. I may need to increase my budget, however.
Audiofeil, what do you recommend for an arm/table/cart to partner with my current gear.
PMB