Basically, as best I can tell by perusing all of the comments is that you should forget everything everyone else has stated because either (1) the only speaker worthwhile considering is the one the person commenting is suggesting or (2) no one's opinion other than yours counts.
There is some truth to (2). If you spend enough time listening to other speakers, you may ultimately gain some clarity regarding what you like and, possibly, find a speaker that you truly like. Once you cross the threshold of around $30K/pair and above, you will find that speakers become more specific in the way they reproduce music because they emphasize certain specific characteristics in their reproduction of music. Some demonstrate amazing clarity and sharp imaging; others demonstrate a certain voluptuous quality to the sound. These attributes are due to the way a good speaker is "tuned". Their outputs are analogous to fine violins; they all are "right", but they all are also different. Which you prefer is solely up to you.
The way a speaker sounds is a product of its fundamental design, and it is immutable. Different speaker cables, for example, cannot impact a speaker's intrinsic characteristics in any significant way. That is why you must choose your speakers wisely.

