@lanx0003 This may or may not help but I am doing exactly what you seem to be about to try. I have an ATT BGW320 (which you have to use because the ONT is built-in - AT&T doesn't provide a separate ONT). Since I already had my own Asus mesh system (XT8), I set the BGW320 to passthru and turned off 2.4 and 5 transmitters. This avoids the problems of double NATing and additional congestion on the networks you actually want to use (Netgear). I have not modified the MTU setting for either router. I stream Qobuz without problems.
Honestly, it sounds like a quirk between the AT&T router and your streamer. If it worked before with the Netgear and that solves your current problem, this is even more likely. My streamer (Lumin) does not do WiFi and my Mesh layout doesn't place a node near the equipment rack so I have a Netgear range extender providing an ethernet connection to the Lumin which is a little different than your situation.
My AT&T internet has been rock solid but I have only had it since last July. Where I previously lived, people with AT&T had lots of problems so those issues are probably regional.

