I have always used one subwoofer in my setup, for a variety of reasons. The sub that finally solved my standing waves issue and also integrated best with my main speakers was the Golden Ear SuperSub X. It retails for $1500 new. The larger model (SuperSub XXL) retails for $2,000. Audio Advisor and Crutchfield are retailers, and both have "buy it, try it" policies. I don't see any used ones on the market right now.
While there are no user reviews on Audio Advisor, Crutchfield has 10 reviews of the SS - X and 14 reviews of the SS-XXL. Plus, there are some video reviews of it on YouTube. While this sub doesn't get mentioned much in these forums, I'd say it's at least worth a look. Best of luck in your search!

