I used to own a BMW and loved it. As I became a grandfather, I needed a larger car to pick up my granddaughters from school.
There is absolutely a difference between people like me who have only a passing interest in the electronics and mechanics of audio versus its sound. And even regarding its sound, it has taken me many decades to believe audio writers who talk about "air," "soundstage," etc. I have had to own equipment that can produce those sounds to buy into their existence.
I have had friends who upgrade their systems with better capcitors, etc. Even friends who have made their own equipment. I am jealous. I wish I had that apptitude. I am a writer and I listen to music while I write.
The Sonus Faber Olympica Novas are the first really good speakers I have ever owned. Prior to those, I had the GoldenEars as I mentioned. I thought they were wonderful until I had an inheritance which allowed me to purchase the Sonus Fabers, which are in a totally different class.
Anyway, I love music, and I like people who love music. Whether people's budgets are relatively low, as mine has mostly been, and they buy used or they make their own gear, I would much prefer to talk about the music itself. I go to hear live concerts a lot. My wife and I have tickets to the L.A. Phil and I go to hear jazz at the Soraya on the CSUN campus.
Probably one of the reasons that I would not buy from somebody who makes equipment is because I know so little about their workings. I've known a lot of electrical engineers who try to talk to me about how an amp or preamp works, and I get bored quickly.
So, I'm glad we understand one another. Basically, I think it's the music we both really love in the end. In that regard, I think everybody on all of these forums are brothers in arms, although we might spat from time to time.

