Jay's barbecue - disinvited


The barbecue is on and is all very exciting, or I should say was exciting.  We had lots of fun talking about decorations around pool, inviting neighbors who live kind of far away since Jay lives in the middle of a forest. And also about food and local caterers who plan to help.

The mood was celebratory.

It was exciting visiting the most famous listening room in the country, and because I was having trouble containing my excitement I accidentally spilled an entire glass of merlot wine on a new carpet. And earlier I recommended putting a couch along the wall which would've overlapped the acoustic panels and possibly putting a few pieces of furniture in the room since space seems kind of open. It's a really large room. I sensed a mood change.

Was it the wine? Was it my taste in furniture? Was it related to my concern about types of music that that would be played at the barbecue? 

It's a mystery. Things did not go well that afternoon and consequently, I will not be invited to the barbecue.

What an amazing journey and I'm sorry I will not be able to visit and experience all the incredibly expensive and wonderful audio components that will be featured. That's OK.  Thank God for you tube.

for those future visitors, please let me know if he was able to get the stain out of the carpet. Maybe now he'll consider buying a couch which will hide the stain.

 

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Although accidents do happen, THE most talked about spilled stain is red wine. Therefore it is wise to exercise greater care not to spill.

It is common that people like to enjoy newness of recently purchased items. Again, greater care should have been taken. 

Take no responsibility for your actions, no offer to help compensate for the damages, and then attempt to turn things around and make the injured party look bad.Then wonder about the disinvite ? 

The host should at least share part of the blame for allowing red wine around the new rug in the first place!

Maybe it was the merlot;

"No, if anyone orders Merlot, I'm leaving. I am NOT drinking any fing Merlot!"