Thank you @frank009, I'll keep my eye out for the burmester. You needn't think twice about my staying away from the Genesis, at least I'm not.
And never mind EQ there either, in fact, all that was available was a surround setting that could be increased. When I maxed that out, the salesman in the backseat thought his world had improved. My wife and I in the front row could not distinguish anything having changed anywhere. In the front (and apparently throughout), the music seemed to remain at the perimeter of the vehicle, never reaching us in the heart of the cabin. So strange! I have never experienced sound not filling a space, no matter the volume.

