Establishing a relationship with a dealer of repute who is adept at system matching would obviously be beneficial and a good first step. Just my two cents.
There are *so many* choices available. I recently attended an Audio Expo and found that for a normal size room (not a big hall) that my partner and I absolutely loved the Grimms LS1be (with powered electronics). We also thoroughly enjoyed the Magico S3. Given that an audio dealer can't possibly carry all models of every brand, a trip to an audio show might serve as a good sampling situation to get ideas.

