"Glare" and "Harshness" are forms of distortion if they are not actually intended for the media. For that matter, any change from the media is a "distortion" so it comes down to terms..., and picking your poison.
BTW, you’ve demonstrated what I’ve been saying all along..., a $3 resistor in the crossover network can do more for the sound than a $$$ set of fancy cables or changing out a piece of equipment.
Where did you place the resistors in the schematic? Did they go before or after the filter?
If the crossover is second order or higher and you place the resistor before the filter, it will not change the impedance seen so the slopes remain similar, but attenuated.
If the resistor went after the filter (before driver), you’ve added impedance and changed the slopes slightly..

