OP
a recent related conversation here:
https://forum.audiogon.com/discussions/suggestions-on-disposing-of-a-collection-of-jazz-vinyl
I weeded, weeded, not finished (after 4-1/2 years), and of the ones I kept, I am weeding more.
One key decision is 1 in/2 out, it’s not fast, but it allows you to alphabetize now and not move everything when any ’letter’ gets too much
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My process of weeding ’too many’ (forget money, doesn’t matter and slows you down):
I inherited 4,000 lps, and already had 2,500, already too many. That’s about 80 lf, 27 three ft shelves. I already had shelves for the 2500, I quickly bought 10 rolling racks of tall shelving, to stack stuff and lps to near the ceiling: the garage is a total mess still.
I quickly sorted the inherited into 2 piles, keep or go, and I mean quickly, out of the box: two piles.
First, I asked friends to come by and take whatever they wanted from the ’to go’ shelves.
Next, I found and had 3 good record stores come here, and give me a price. None wanted them all, so I ended up selling 700 to this one, 1,000 to that one, 400 to the 3rd.
I mailed 100 each to 2 nephews on the west coast who recently got into Vinyl.
I kept two rows, 9 lf each, just above and below eye level, easy to see and pick/replace, alphabetical, if I buy, it’s 1 in, two out, that’s it, and I want to weed them to what I realistically will listen to.
I had my son pick 50 lps from my 18lf for his 50th Birthday, and picked a dozen each for my two granddaughters (his kids).
I just gave 7lf of remaining unwanted LPs to a friend to give to his wife’s women’s group annual auction. Get em outta here!
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That all took 4-1/2 years.
Lastly, I need to go thru the many classical that NOBODY wants, pick some to keep and get RID of the rest. (well, Steve at VAS came by to hear a cartridge he rebuilt on my system and I nearly begged him to take some classical, he bought 50. He’s the only one that would even take any).
The money didn’t make any damn difference, I should have made the record stores take them all or none, free, just get me some shelf space to get the garage back in order.
A good home? Unless you know for sure, people might lie to you and re-sell them, does it matter?
I don’t save books anymore, it’s hard to give them away. Nobody reads!
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Now, I stroll, and randomly pick a letter, grab two to listen to, and discover, ’I’ll never listen to that again’, so I move it to a future give it away shelf.
I go for content/artists I enjoy, combined with recording/imaging excellence (not audiophile demos).
NEW acquisitions (remember 1 in/2 out)
When I find a favorite that is worn/beat up, I also buy a new copy, but unlike you, I do NOT worry much about the BEST PRESSING, it’s too much effort to decide and then distracting to enjoyment to listen for the slight differences, I go for original version, used, very good, or new, at a good price.
I find many 180 gm versions come warped, so I stopped buying them.
45 rpm is nice, but also, a well engineered played at 33 is quite good. You are correct, many are good enough for Streaming or CD’s,
Cleaning OLD Dirty LP’s is important, I vigorously scrub mine manually, what a remarkable difference it makes, especially if they were previously played with elliptical and after cleaning you play with an advanced stylus shape that gets deeper in the groove. (watch for dirt 1st play, they can dig stuff out of the grooves you didn’t get out.

You might find you do not need a new copy afterall.