Please clarify...are you listening to multi-channel or to stereo (2 channels, speakers in front, maybe a sub)?
I have never heard sounds behind my head on my stereo. I'm not bothered by that. Speakers are in front, so it is normal to hear sound emanating from near where the speakers reside. Any sound you hear that seems to come from behind in a stereo setup is a sonic reflection off something in the room, like the wall, the carpets, furniture and people. These reflections are not wanted as they compete with the direct sound from the speakers in many unpredictable and always unwanted ways.

