I use the Benchmark LA4. It is totally transparent, if your system is at all bright this is not good, but if you are looking for resolution, spatial awareness and neutrality you cannot do better. If you want "soul" look elsewhere.
It has two RCA and two balanced XLR inputs, single RCA and XLTR out, plus a mono XLR.
Volume is controlled by relays and precision resistors. The remote will control volume and input selection.
The reviews of this component are accurate.
A thought, in your price range, is the Cary SLP-98.

