@lanx0003 @devinplombier
I do have a second system in my bedroom. It's an old Tivoli radio with extra speaker, sub woofer, and cd player. I don't mind listening to it at all when I'm napping . I think all the pieces cost less than $1K.
Everything comes down to time and money. My friends think I'm crazy for the amount of time I've spent on my stereo. I can see where an engineer might enjoy playing around with a system more than the rest of us. Although, I've hit the age where I can no longer crouch in the 20" space behind the stereo. I went from tubes to solid state because tubes require a lot of crouching. I call a friend who knows nothing about stereos, but who has a steady hand, to help me install a new cartridge. I'm still a good diagnostician, though.
So, back to time and money. If I had the money for high-end cables, I'd probably spend it on something else. An expensive streamer. Or one of those cartridges that cost much more than $2K. I have a feeling I might have hit the level of diminishing returns on cables. Although I did recently purchase the Nordost/VPI tonearm cables that go to the phono stage. Everybody said that cable really matters.
I also think that new interconnects and speaker cables are beyond my physical abilities. I've compared cables before and it's a lot of work. And by the time you get the new speaker cables hooked up (with a lot of crouching) you've forgotten what the old ones sounded like. A/B ing streamers is a lot easier.
So, I'll add age to my list of what matters. Time, money, and age, with a subset of crouchability. And wives, of course. They're at the top of the list.