Per Welcher, I normally listen at a max 65 dB, at my seating position. Mostly rock, blues, some lighter music like Jesse Cook.
If I understand everything correctly, I am using 1/4 watt of power to get 65 dB at 12 ft ( I added a bit of distance ). Adding in the dynamic factor for rock, normally what I listen to, guys like Tommy Castro, I get 108 dB spl at the speaker, which works out to 64 watts ( to handle the dynamic range ).
Some fascinating information here. The 3 dB rule gain for double the power. 6 dB rule for double the distance. I don't remember ever hearing any of this..
So, what I am getting from this discussion is I would need atleast 64 watts ( with that extra distance of 12 ft vs 10 ft ) and I would run my amp at full output, if I bought an amp rated for 65 wpc. Of course, buying an amp at 120 wpc would mean I would run that amp at half power, a 250 wpc amp at 1/4 power, etc.
I suspect the next factor is running anything at near it full rated load has drawbacks. Hence, using a high powered amp at lower power is preferable.

