The seller sends OP email, the OP does not respond, the OP is surprised and offended!?
Not a fact. I did respond, in less than 13 hours. By which time, it was too late.
Fact: we agreed on something. Seller changes his mind.
If I were the seller, I would have waited a day at least to give the buyer a chance.
@mitch2 I understand. The difference in this situation: I have a long established presence on that site, 100% positive feedback. I exchanged over 20 messages about the deal and discussed the details of the pickup.
I guess I have been spoiled by good hearted and generous audiophiles (not represented in many of the comments here - reality check - check)
But I have learned my lesson. Thanks for all the feedback.

