@erik_squires , The only way eric that you can do what I have been talking about is with digital signal processing. The reason you have to have independent control over both high and low pass filters both 3 or 6 dB down points and slopes is because after matching time and phase the game is keeping the subwoofers out of the midrange and relieving the main speakers of as much bass as possible, two conflicting issues.
First, weird that you can actually see how my name is spelled and still chose to misspell it.
Second, you are thinking too much like a speaker builder, which I am and respect, but it’s leaving you locked in your thinking. As speaker builders we think of the electro-acoustical properties of each driver and come up with a happy balance of slope, delay and phase matching, but if we are limited by what we can do in one filter section we can compensate for it in another. For instance, if your tweeter requires a steeper rolloff then you can compensate by removing a pole in the woofer.
This same principle also means that we can achieve very good frequency and phase matching if at least one of your filters (high or low) is one you have complete control over. So a simple high pass filter on the mains + DSP on the sub will work beautifully.
I’m working on a project right now to help demonstrate this more fully, I hope you find it helpful.
In any case, no matter how you chose to integrate a subwoofer, whether we use a DSP for both high and low pass filtering, use no high pass filter, or take the approach I suggest, taking in room measurements is essential. The basic speaker specs are practically useless in determining the appropriate filter settings once in an actual room.

