@barts “Please reread your (my) comment”
l see someone else has beat me to a reply and possibly feels the same as me?
l just did read back my post… Just to make sure!
l gathered that opinion from your attitude towards your guest, which was a choice, not to educate him. You did not invite a healthy conversation, embarrassed your cousin by your dismissive behaviour, and by evasion (and silence) did not demonstrate how your system works.
Do you not think that he would have appreciated a more open discussion?
You did say he entered the whole conversation in a “congenial way”, the way you chose to finish it was not.

