I’m glad to hear you found a path back to enjoying music. Hyperacusis can make this hobby incredibly challenging, and the fact that you’ve spent the last year and a half carefully building a system around your listening comfort rather than chasing specs speaks volumes. I may be right up there with hyperacusis, albeit without the ringing symptoms. As a precaution, I keep my listening levels modest, typically in the 60–69 dB range. I also never attend concerts or movie theaters without some cotton in my ears for added protection.
I think the Softone is an excellent choice for exactly the reasons you’ve outlined. It’s musical, natural, and avoids the etched or hyper-detailed presentation that can become fatiguing. Combined with the ZROCK3, you’ll have another valuable tool for tailoring the tonal balance to your ears and your room.
I would like to leave with a note for the future: once you settle down with M4, do experiment with cartridges like Hana ML. Please don’t automatically assume that a more resolving cartridge will aggravate your hyperacusis. In my experience, the Hana ML is actually less fatiguing than the SH despite extracting more information from the groove. The MicroLine stylus tends to track cleaner, with less groove noise, less sibilance, and fewer high-frequency artifacts that can trigger listening fatigue. It’s not necessarily brighter-just more refined and composed.
Many listeners equate resolution with increased treble energy, but the best cartridges reveal more detail while sounding smoother and more relaxed. The ML does a better job separating musical information from distortion, which can make longer listening sessions easier rather than harder.
That said, I’d absolutely enjoy the Softone first and spend some time rolling tubes. You may find you’ve already arrived at the balance you’ve been searching for. The most important thing is that you’re listening to records again and enjoying the experience instead of analyzing equipment.
Please do report back once everything is set up. I’ll be very interested to hear how the Hana, Softone, ZROCK3, and MF A1 work together in your system.

