the one that got away - how do you handle grief?


I just lost a bid for my dream speakers that I had been chasing for a decade. It was pretty stupid because I missed the last hour and maybe I would have won it with another $100. But maybe it's a sign, it's just a piece of hardware, that I should not be obsessed with. - "you can't always get what you want"

Did you always get the gear you thought would make you whole?

parkergetdean

@faustuss and I will try to be less dramatic cheeky

@thecarpathian I booked hotels for you and I to do a comedy tour together. Forget Steve Martin and Martin Short.

parkergetdean

The meaning of any words, especially one like "grief" have no universal definition. Up to the individual using these words. 

So tell members like faustuss to get stuffed. He knows nothing about your life and what troubles you have seen. He is just being dramatic and petty.

Faustuss might also lecture you at what point the expenditures on your hobbies get excessive and worthy of guilt.