Lamp cord and speaker hanger audiophiles


I am retired now, but while I was working - I had probably a dozen or more coworkers within different departments reach out to me about system building. 

The enthusiasm was certainly there - but what’s missing is their commitment to actually building a system; or a decent one at that. 

These so-called gentlemen were the same people who pulled up to corporate dinners in their semi-high end luxury cars (i have a Bentley so I’m not picking on anyone) but it seems the best most of them could afford was BMW or Mercedes Benz. I sold my Maybach last year and acquired a Bentley; and I’m never going back! 

With that said - the point I’m trying to get across is  - they have the MEANS to spend, (doesn’t have to be excessive) but cheap out on everything. You find out later that they’ve been leasing their vehicles, don’t own any or very basic real estate, etc. 

Sometimes they complain when a steak dinner is about 50 dollars or a pasta dish is just over 30 dollars. This is not even expensive. I told some of them to get with the program, and they apologized to me in person and over email.

And with rising gas prices, they’ve been complaining even more, and trying to save money at every turn. 

These guys don’t really live their lives. They just live to exist and impress their wives - You know, happy wife - happy life. And they are miserable. 

Before I retired, one such fellow was annoying the daylights out of me.

Showed me an all plastic low-fi system from the 1990s that he had inherited from his deceased brother. Told me he had 100 dollars to spend to make it sound better. I told him that was not good enough considering the amplifier was just so lousy.

Well guess what? He passed away a month ago. He died in his sleep. He was going through a very turbulent marriage and his daughter wanted to move to Nigeria to live with some guy she met online.

The one thing he told me that he had was - alone time, because his wife would barely talk to him. It’s sad and unfortunate that he never got to enjoy his money.

He was earning about 150k a year, which is kind of okay.

What’s not okay was trying to save money at every turn. You can’t take any of the things you acquire with you; and we only have this one life... 

He was the perfect example of a lamp cord and speaker hanger audiophile. 

At one point, he tried using bent coat hangers on speaker terminals. I am actually serious. he found an article that was linked to Audio Science Review.

Godspeed.

frank009

@thecarpathian 

"@faustuss ,

You have me mixed up with someone else who suggested you be banned, and as I recall I posted that that extreme was uncalled for. We might have had a bit of a dust up, but I never tried to get you banned."

My apologies, the following is how the dialog transpired. You can see how I would have associated you with such an action. Interestingly, you will see how arbitrarily the moderators police speech deleting the statement got bpoletti POd without doing anything about the condescending diatribe that followed.

bpoletti
12-15-2025 at 07:04am 
@faustuss What a hateful comment.  You know nothing abut me or my system, and that the way I want it.  Music is the ONLY reason for a system.  If that's too hard to understand, then your horizons are limited.

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thecarpathian
12-15-2025 at 07:39am 
@bpoletti ,

Apparently, he's the self appointed Profile Police.

Pretty abrasive edge to him, as you can see. Wrote this when he checked to see if I had my system listed:

"Of course there's nothing in yours." 

When I asked him what he meant by that he went on to explain how it 'irks' him. I was uncharacteristically diplomatic about his not so veiled insult.

bpoletti
12-15-2025 at 07:45am 
@thecarpathian 

I've reported him with a request to ban him.  

He seems to be the stereotype reason why social has a bad reputation.  If Audiogon moderators are smart, they would give him one chance to fix his comments or be relegated to the nearest landfill.

    
mylogic
12-15-2025 at 02:40pm 
@bpoletti ”I’ve reported him with a request to ban him”

Could this be a new, “La Damnation de Faust” ?

    
bpoletti
12-15-2025 at 02:53pm 
@mylogic 

I think of it a little more like an exorcism although I do like your musical reference."

Anything you say on the internet is immortalized.

In my experience, those that truly have generally don't need to talk about it ...

There has been a lot of research conducted into the nature of wealthy people and it agrees with your experience. Thomas J. Stanley did some of the seminal work on this. In his first book, he wrote how he first started looking for millionaires to interview and began with the big homes in expensive neighborhoods. What he found was that they're often not wealthy at all. Real wealth is not measured strictly by income but by net worth. The big house, the expensive car are often just indicators of debt, not wealth.

There's another reason why those who "have" rarely discuss it. It's simply something that's risky to advertise, because it can lead to requests for donations or loans. That's a common problem for those who win the lottery.

There are wealthy people who take delight in displaying it - even flaunting it. They are typically the nouveau riche, and often face eventual reversal of fortune. Literally.

The Thread has a similarity to a joke once heard about Ron R on a Presidential Trip to Ireland. 

Whilst crossing a bridge over a river he observed an individual carrying out a very good mime fishing. 

Ron R intrigued had the pretend fisherman and dropped at the local Pub, for Ron R to share a Pint of Guiness together. 

After Pint No 3, Ron R inquired how many were caught today. 

The pretend fisherman replied your the first. 

Looks like the Thread is a catch and the catch is properly done.