I think what you may be missing is, when music is recorded it is recorded using various microphones positioned in various locations and then mastered into a recording in such a way that often you can "sort of" pin point what you percieve is the location of the various instruments. Likely, you also then interpret this as a good recording because it is "realistic and allows you into the music" -so to speak. This is what most of us has been taught is the hallmark of good sound reproduction produced by quality electronics- i.e. sources, preamplifiers, amplifiers, speakers, etc. In a live concert -whether acoustic or electronic- you would rarely even attempt to locate the source of the various sounds you are hearing. Especially if the music is enjoyable it just doesn't matter nor do you care where the sound is coming from. Isn't it curious that what we are not even close to caring about in a live performance is the standard we use is judging recorded material in terms of realism, quality, etc.?

