why are sellers to be trusted, but buyers are not?

if you eat and try to leave, you will be caught and handed over to the cops

1. irrelevant

2. does not happen

So, still a perfect rebuttal. I also bought a car that I only paid for 2 days after I drove it off the lot. There are a ton of examples. 

This simply seems like wishful thinking that sellers should act like X, and buyers like Y.

Unfortunately in our small niche market both sellers and buyers vary greatly from dependable/fair to scammers.

@herman - The item and the money are of equal value.. so why is one party to be trusted and the other is not? Why does the seller always insist on waiting to get paid before they ship? Why doesn’t the buyer insisting on getting the item before they will pay for it?

…Why should I trust them if they don’t trust me?

simple. These are Your personal rules which you judged as “fair” and not anyone else. People have different priorities that often change with time and circumstances 

regarding the question, I do not like it either. I was nervous for days until my item arrived. Nothing like this could ever exists in most of the World. There is a pay on delivery option, you only pay when the carrier shows up at your door and that works well.

Is the AI slop necessary is answering every question?

@herman 

Don't let the tough guys on this site get you down! I think this is a great topic and you are doing a great job as OP.  

If you have been selling online for 20 years you were aware of the rising costs affecting sellers as is typical in a capitalist society. From my start on eBay in 2001 to now it was a constant sucking of profits year over year from eBay, PayPal, and all the shipping companies. Mind you, nowadays, shipping companies raise prices an average of 5% every year, year over year. UPS and the likes of them tout all the upgrades to their business model as to why this must be endured by their customer base. They (UPS; Fedex; USPS) have grown into a monopoly similar to a utility company. They are practically working together to ensure fast service and faultless tracking.

It is true that a lost package is really rare nowadays, but those shipping companies claim technological advancements to justify a rise in pricing. I believe the act of raising shipping prices really accelerated around the year, 2015. You can probably find time parallels with cheap Chinese goods infiltrating our economy as the starting point. America welcomed global shipping and got much higher rates nationally because of it. In reality, they were upgrading their global footprint and charging everyone in America for it. 

My belief is that we have reached margins that do not allow for lateral movement within the structures that have been laid out via sellers like eBay and Amazon. One may refer to this dynamic as "reaching the end of the road", or late stage capitalism.