Thank you all for the thoughtful responses. I very well may try a first order filter and will looking to an LC circuit like Erik suggested. Those inexpensive RCA filter plugs would be a simple experiment. The Hsu could also be worth trying, also inexpensive.
I have a pair of JL fathoms which do not excite that mode. The issue the main speakers. I have done hundreds of measurements and changes over the course of three different speaker pairs. The CR1 fixes the 60Hz anti-node issue. I sold it due to the distortion. A crossover will do the job, but I am trying to not pay the penalty for using one.
In the past I raised a pair of much lighter REL subs halfway up the wall. It did help. It is a good idea, but I do not want to do raise a 130lb sub off the floor in my living room. I have acoustic treatment including multiple bass traps. For my own sanity I am not going reinvent that wheel ;). That was a long road. Thanks again

