Having studied about networks when I worked in the computer industry, I argued exactly what you're arguing about network packets being checked, so all network packets are the same no matter what cable you use. I also made the argument that my DAC was asynchronous and reclocked the signal. I argued that as long as I could hear the music, a 50 ohm interconnect would work as well as a 75 ohm digital cable. If the packets were getting through then they were being error correcxted.
To test my theory I bought a $14 digital cable and a $249 digital cable. The $249 digital cable won, at least by my ears. The interconnect caused bad jitter. The $14 cable was much closer to the $249 cable, but the $249 cable was the best.
Why? It has much better shielding and its wiring is more complex? I don't know. But I do know that my bias was for all the cables to sound the same. That would have been my bet based on the networking theory that I knew. Anyway, the $14 cable is available to anyone who wants it.

