I think part of the problem is that most of us read reviewers on various pieces of equipment. Most of what I read about is not avalable in my area, and I'd have to drive hundreds of miles or fly somewhere to test out the equipment.
But worse than that, the reviewers seem to have all sorts of expensive equipment lying around to try in the system they're reviewing. "When I put in the $50,000 mono amps then I had the power the speakers were hungry for." Who has a $50K set of amps, or even a second amp lying around to test speakers with.
Then they have all sorts of cables. "I put in the Nordost Vallhala's and that really brought the system to life." Right! If I had Nordost Vallhalas they wouldn't be lying around.
We are all constrained by so many variables. Money, of course, but also access to equipment we've read about. It can be a bit crazy making. However, the bottom line is the music and we all have to remember that. I have enjoyed music on a very inexpensive system, because that's all I had to enjoy the music on. And I have always wanted the music. Even when I had a cheap transistor radio with a plastic earphone. (Just one earphone!) It's always been about the music.

