My final main speakers were designed, built, tested, and tweaked using this family room as my final test bed.
That’s a key point. You *built* your speakers for that room. That’s a kind of "treatment" in my opinion, though I am not sure how you built it for the room other than back and forth trial and error. That's a good method but it helps to also have information about nodes, reflections, etc. by measuring. But if you haven’t measured and it sounds good to you, that’s important. Could it sound better? Quite likely, but if that can't happen, well it's best to find a practical life-balance. It's not "audiophile-ideal" but it is "life-ideal."
For me, getting into the audiophile hobby has meant playing around with tubes, gear, cables, isolation platforms to see what changes they make. But I get extra confidence in playing around with those minor changes knowing that the largest factor, the room, is dialed in. I’d compare it to tasting different wines -- I prefer to judge the differences between a merlot and a cabernet without having a strong breath mint in my mouth at the same time. I can tell some differences between the wines with a breath mint in my mouth, but I would prefer not to make distinctions with additional distractors in the comparison.

