I don't disagree with the gist of your post, but nothing in it proves that proprietary drivers necessarily outperform those from specialized brands like Accuton or Morel who do this all day.
Chances are, a large part of developing proprietary drivers is the manufacturer's desire to control the supply chain.
As an owner, everything else being equal, I would rather my speakers were equipped with off the shelf drivers; the odds of finding a drop-in replacement 20 years down the road are that much higher.
Speaker design is more about the enclosure than the drivers anyway. As an example, the acclaimed Kii Three ($15K) rock basic Peerless woofer and midrange (the latter you can get off Digikey for $14) and SEAS tweeters. But the enclosure and DSP are extraordinarily evolved.

