You’re trying to put a band-aid on a gushing artery. From skimming a few reviews, it’s probably your speakers.
You could get some Blue Jeans cables, which will suck the life out of the sound. You might be able to tame them with tube amplification, but that’s a more expensive band-aid.
Why don’t you try listening to some other speakers and see if you can find some that are more to your liking? For some, your speakers might be "revealing" and the Goldilocks speakers for them, but it sounds like they are not right for you. You can keep trying to live with them and spend a bunch of time and money trying to get them to sound the way you want, but why put yourself through that?
Re-positioning and playing with toe-in is a no-cost effort, but if that doesn’t work, at least consider the possibility that the speakers are the problem.

