1) Don't dismiss used out of hand, you can get a great deal on used and people who buy expensive speakers generally take care of them. I got killer deal on used speakers (think 80% off list) especially at dealers who don't sell a brand but take them on trade-in for good customer
2) Every speaker is enhanced with a sub, even a small sub. But it sounds like this is a wife-acceptance thing. If you primarily listen to classical music or even jazz from the 50's & 60's, they're probably less important.

