I think you are going to have to look at the entry level pro monitor/sub market. The problem with home speakers is the drivers are not built to deal with the heat generated being played loud for an extended length of time. Many consumers speakers spend manufacturing cost on cosmetics not drivers. Drivers are what makes a pro monitor different- like ATC (ATC dominates the commercial recording studio market). Within the ATC brand, the SCM12 is the pro version of the least expensive passive. That would be a good place to start. I would skip the sub as good versions of PRO subs cost more than 3K.
Brad

