OP, if you have able bodied friends or family, I wouldn't discount getting larger speakers than 100 lbs. There's a reason the nice stuff weighs more. Tektons are my go to but there are many nice looking used options that exceed that weight limit. There's a pair of Eggleston Andra II's used out there and some Rockports. I'd check those out and / or go audition some tektons near you. Even if they aren't the moabs or ulfbehrts, anything with the seven+ tweeter array is going to give you the qualities you listed with solid upstream gear.
Best of luck to you and update us on what you choose and your thoughts! Always fun to hear about someone's journey and what they wound up selecting after all these people respond and chime in.

