Listening Room or Components or my ears?

I would suggest pursuing room treatments, because even if it's some combination of equipment that isn't to your liking, the treated room will benefit you greatly no matter what direction you go with speakers or gear. 

Have you tried tube rolling in your Rogue? You can make solid gains in that direction. You may also have tubes that are going...  Check bias and maybe start with new tube for the pre section.

Focal Aria have a lot of treble presence, even though the speakers are warm overall. I would also try playing with the angle as suggested above. 

Your description makes the room sound like a problem.  I can surmise you have one wall that is +/- 21 feet long, but not much else.   A lot of reflections off walls with paneling.  Have a look at this site and see if you can select an area of the total room that could give you better H x L x W.  Then consider some low cost acoustic  wall treatment.  They say the room is 50% of the sound.  I would start there.  Cheers.   https://www.acoustic.ua/forms/rr.en.html  

Agree with the advice on treating your room including adjusting the speakers toe-in and your listening position.  Focals can sound a bit harsh or sibilant especially if you’re sensitive to sibilance.  You may want to demo speakers with a different sound profile if the room treatments don’t work.  You may prefer speakers with a rolled off top end instead of an elevated in room response. 

Six feet is very close together.  Can you move them apart and toe them out more - get out of the tweeter's death ray?

See an audiologist first, if you want to avoid or postpone a wild goose chase.