Thanks for the idea. We do not have nickel coins Down Under, though we mine plenty of nickel!
The VM540ML has a designed tracking force between 1.8 and 2.2 grams.
The SME 3009 tone arm is a high-precision, low mass design and worked particularly well with the Shure V15 high compliance cartridges, tracking at about 1 gram. Tracking force is applied by turning a big counterweight until the arm balances level, then sliding a smaller weight along a calibrated rod to apply tracking force. The rod is marked in 1/4 gram intervals and stops short at 1.5 grams. It is easy enough to turn the big counterweight to give more tracking force, but you have to use some other way of measuring it. No drama with digital scales..
The anti-skating force is applied by a bob weight dangling on a very fine line running through a miniature pulley. The other end of the line loops around another calibrated rod to apply side pressure. Once again, the rod length is designed for a maximum of 1.5 grams tracking force.
The obvious solution is to increase the mass of the bob weight with some very small nickel equivalent with a central hole! I have test records with tracks for setting the anti-skating force but I have not worked out how to use them yet!

