Trying to do anything over the internet is folly at best. There are way to many uncontrolled variables.
Most of what people say they hear is imagined which is why rigidly controlled studies with a cooperative panel are necessary to say anything.
All audio is personal. We all expect something out of our systems. I want to feel as if I am at a live venue. Needless to say I have never gotten exactly what I expect, close maybe, but not good enough which is why I am still at it. I am a lot closer than I was 25 years ago. This has nothing to do with the enjoyment of music. Most of my listening is done on an inferior workshop system. This is only about the potential performance achievable with todays tech at a less than ridiculous price,
We seem to be like ships passing in the night. Are you saying that you can only achieve a satisfactory level of performance at a live performance and that this is not achievable with a residential system? I attend a live performance about every other month. The last was Nickle Creek at the State Theater in Portland Maine about one month ago and it was killer. Chris Thile is a major talent. Their recordings are also stellar. Putting them in the media room is easy. Black Midi, not so much.
All I care about is feeling like I am at a live venue. Many recordings make this impossible but that does not mean that I can not appreciate the voices of Billy Holiday or Enrico Caruso. With many recordings it is. System (includes the room) errors like sibilance and exaggerated high frequencies destroy any possibility. Amplitude errors are far more pervasive then either IM or Harmonic distortion. What seems to bother me most with turntables is problems that interfere with pitch, more wow than flutter, things like offset spindle holes and warped records.

