Your top 3 most EMOTIONALLY intense live concerts, and top 3 EMOTIONALLY intense records.

ONE.  

A Piece For Assorted Lunatics 1972

My introduction to surround sound

Only 1: Itzak Perlman playing Bach's Partita in D Minor for violin in a 1978 performance, especially and wonderfully the Chaconne:

https://youtu.be/qtyTaE7LvVs

Here's one
The Frames "Fitzcaraldo"

Concerts:  Cream Farewell Baltimore Arena; First Dead free concert I ever attended at American University; first Jethro Tull (also free) at Colorado College in 1970. Never before heard a band play together in such TIGHT arrangements. 
Records:  Rod Stewart and the Small Faces, Maggie May. Picking on Nashville, Kentucky Headhunters; Beatles White Album 

bobandcindy101 -- wow, Cream. Still in my top handful of bands. Clapton before he discovered Delaney & Bonnie and lost every ounce of passion and energy.