Which brand of 45 tubes do you use?

Larry,  I believe I understand your description of  "phasey". My 45 amps are a simple SET using one 45 tube (1.5 watts) and silver hybrid transformers. Our speakers are very dynamic so the mesh plate EML might be a nice match

The only OTL amps I've owned were Joule Electra. The mid-range and upper mid-range was wonderful, bass not so much. I got them from a friend so I don't know their history but they turned out to be noisy, finicky and hot so they didn't last long in my room. I am interested in trying contemporary OTLs. 

I liked the Joule Electra OTL I heard.  It was a nice warm sounding amp that retained the explosive dynamics and immediacy of OTL's without sounding harsh or rough.  But, the particular amp I heard developed bad tube sockets that cause it to occasionally deliver extremely loud pops (a friend borrowed this amp from the dealer to use on his 105 db/w efficient system and he said the pop was as loud as discharging a shotgun indoors).  This problem was reported by others so it is something to be concerned about.

The Atmasphere OTL's are also nice sounding units, though a bit too lean sounding for my particular taste.  With high efficiency speakers they often are a bit noisy-buzz/hum.  Still, they are a must listen to amp because they might fit your taste and they certainly deliver the OTL goods.  I've heard other commercial OTL's from the past, and I liked the sound, but, they seemed to be often in need of repair. 

There is the unique Berning circuit amps, which are the subject of debate whether they are OTL's or not.  I've heard both the Berning models and the Linear Tube Audio models.  For my particular taste, they are a bit too lean sounding.

The Joule Electra OTLs were very nice sounding amps but too finicky for the showroom. Maybe the set we had needed repair. The biasing system was not consistent. I never experienced loud pops from faulty tube sockets but had read about it. The contact between the pins and sockets were, in most cases, very loose.

Yes, the Atmasphere OTL S-30 is on the top of my list to try. Our speakers have powered woofers. The main towers have a sensitivity of 105 dB and the high pass is 120 Hz. They are a very easy load for most amps. As long as the S-30 is quiet enough it should work well.

I have read about the Berning amps but have never heard them. I had a chance to speak with David Berning at the CAF 2018 show. Very interesting design but beyond my price point. I prefer to not demo our speakers with amps that cost more than three times their cost. I wouldn't mind trying them though. 

If you are interested in Berning amps then contact Linear Tube Audio. They manufacture amps based on the Berning ZOTL technology. Their ZOTL10 should work very well with your speakers and the price is just a tad over $3k.

I have owned both the Atma-Sphere S-30 and M60s. I know you don't need the power, but in my opinion the differentiation dictates that the M60 is the one to get. For reference I also have Music Reference and Futterman OTLs.

As for tubes, it's EML or bust for us for new production and RCA/Cunningham for NOS. Also, the recommendation to use Andy at VTS is a good one. He is my go to guy for NOS tubes I otherwise can't get my hands on.