How do you audition speakers at a store?


I would love to know how you all audition speakers in a store. 

Here's my context, which may help explain my question. While I'm not as experienced, knowledgable, or wealthy (!) as many of you, I'm not new to this game, and for the last 35+ years I've made all my serious purchases through one store that I trusted (Take 5, in New Haven). I knew the rooms/acoustics in the store, I knew the owner, and I felt comfortable spending hours there listening to music, often just trying things out. I once spent six hours in one day comparing Maggies, which I ended up buying, with other speakers. I'm sure this sounds familiar to you all. Alas, the owner recently sold the store, it moved location, and, as I live 5-6 hours away now, I'm not inclined to try learn a new environment and a new staff. (I do wish them good luck, though!)

So I find myself without a safe harbor. There are at least four different speakers that I want to hear, in at least three different dealer locations. It's a big purchase for me, in the $4,000-$7,000 range. I feel like a rookie! I'll bring some of my own music and q-tip my ears in the morning, but:

What tricks do you have for leveling the playing field, moving past the psychoacoustic "tricks" that dealers might have to promote one speaker over another or simply the difficulty of mentally trying to hear a speaker as it's going to sound in your own house? I was reading in another recent thread that "Many speakers are voiced to impress during a quick audition, often with a "smiley" EQ." (The poster candidly admitted that he loved them in the store but after a few hours at home they were too bright.) Especially if I can't compare speakers side by side--that is, if I'm going to different locations--what recommendations do you have for minimizing the initial WOW that can happen (because a dealer is a good salesman, because the speakers play "big," because the oriental rug in the room is sooo beautiful, because the room acoustics in one store are better than another, because the amp/components/cables are WAY better than anything I'll ever own, etc)? I also have read that we may be initially drawn to certain acoustic qualities that can shine at first listen but may grate or disappoint later. 

In short, what are your methods for listening "past" a store's environment and the excitement of listening to a new sound ... and hear the real speaker as it will sound in your own space ... for years to come?

I don't know that it matters but I'm going to start my search looking at Kef (Ref1), Harbeth (C7ES-3, 30.1), and Spendour. If I can find a Joseph Audio dealer, I'd love to hear the Pulsars.

Finally: thank you to this community for accepting and welcoming newbies to this culture!
northman
Great replies above. I’d only add a couple things.

When I went, I brought some bookshelves I knew well and had them set up next to the speakers I was auditioning, then A/B’d them. I could hear differences between the two pairs which specifically articulated what the store’s (better) speakers were doing that mine could not. 

The other anecdote was that the salesman played some speakers for me in one room, with one amp, source, etc. and then I went into the better room to hear better speakers. In that room, well, all that gear was also better. I felt shy about asking them to bring the better speakers into the lower-tier room. So, it wasn't a fair comparison. But, I wasn’t about to purchase, so I let it go.
I bring my own speakers.  I want to hear how others sound in direct comparison to mine.  They obviously won't sound the same as they do in my home, but everything else in the store's system will be identical, so the only difference will be the speakers.  Of course, bringing my speaker cables is an easy addition, and probably worthwhile too.  If my amps weren't so heavy, I'd also bring them.  (This probably won't work if you speakers are huge and/or heavy...)
OP,  I feel your pain.  Evaluating in brick and mortar stores was never really easy for me--even when I had tons of brick and mortar shops to go to.  Now that hifi stores are either extinct or on life support, it's worse.  

Not to mention, I need to hear stuff over a long period (say a month) to really know what I'm dealing with.  


RE: "Stereotypes" in Portland, Oregon, I absolutely agree with mike_nc. The staff are extremely knowledgeable and patient. It's my local shop of choice.  I moved here 5 years ago from Washington (state). "Stereotypes" was recommended to me by John Zimmerman of Seattle's "Audio Connection", another shop I suggest locals patronize. It has a limited selection, but it has John and he's been there for decades (and I assume he still is, but I haven't talked to him in about a year). John has exquisite hearing and offers good advice, even if it doesn't involve a sale.

RE: Take 5 in New Haven, I didn't know the shop closed and moved. I visited there once about a year ago and the staff were really nice and engaged. Too bad about that.

RE: New Hampshire, strongly consider "Sounds of Silence" in Nashua. Steve Klein has an excellent selection of high-end equipment and he's a first-rate audiophile, dedicated and personable, too.
You are all VERY kind! 

jbhiller and hilde45: I appreciate your empathy! 

hilde45 and bhakti-rider: that is simply awesome that you bring your own speakers. One of the NH stores that I'll visit (Spendor, KEF, Klipsch, etc) carries my current speakers so that should give me some sense. I'm glad you mentioned this idea. 

gadios: thank you for such a thoughtful response. I didn't mean to suggest that I'm going to do this immediately; I think I'm just excited to start the journey. In fact, I won't be doing anything until after going to the Montreal audio show in March. And I didn't mean to suggest that I was limiting myself to those four speaker companies, nor that I'm determined to buy new. In fact, I've been thinking about starting a thread about buying used speakers, the plusses and minuses. And I'm daily watching a pair of used Pulsars in Ohio and a pair near Toronto; hell, I've already google-mapped the route to both sellers and tried to understand the vagaries of buying something in Canada and bringing it back across the border. But ... I figure that I should at least hear the speakers before I plunk down $4k. Joseph Audio was at the Montreal show last year and I hope they'll be back this year. [Does anyone know a dealer in the Northeast??] And I'm very open to other companies; I'm basing my early preferences on reviews and comments for the kind of sound I want, mostly out here--and a little bit on aesthetics. 

kacomess: Great suggestion about "Sound of Silence." What is up with Nashua? They're loaded with promising spots. As for Take 5, at least it wasn't a sad demise; the owner, Ralph Cortigiano, retired after 42 years. I had a nice visit with him just before they closed, and he was in great form. It's still strange for me to think that when I was a teenager/young adult in New Haven, in the 70s and 80s, there were multiple stereo stores, all of course now gone. Sic transit gloria mundi.