Let’s make this a better community!? One final shot?


(I’m sure I will get totally flamed …and will likely ask the admins to remove this post (WHEN) the gadflies take over)

Just saw where a new Dutch member got flamed for misspelling the word ‘better’…he politely told that person that his first language is not English…and would be glad to converse in his native language. Is this the type of community we want?

Now that the most antagonistic poster is gone (wink)….can we endeavor to avoid politics,needless nitpicking, and insults? I’ve been here 20 years…and it’s really sad what has happened to decorum.

The world is indeed imploding…but, can’t we at least make/keep this a place to go for pleasure?

P.S. I haven’t been perfect either….but, am willing be more mindful in the future.







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Showing 5 responses by stuartk

So, you're reappearing solely to ensure we fully understand just how "total" your lack of interest is ?


@danager: 

"The line is fine between humor and abuse. It would be nice if the rhetoric could be be toned down a notch or three but I do come here for the laughs" 

And individuals vary in their conceptions of what is "funny" and what is "abusive".  Some, for example, might not agree that the difference between the two is a "fine line". 


@ml8764ag:

"Stuartk…. As stupid and juvenile as it sounds….I find that often a standard smile icon can really clarify intent and help a tongue in cheek comment land better.

That being said…there is no way to have fun discourse without sometimes stepping on toes…but I believe most reasonable people are aware of that line.

At the end of the day…we are monkeys with car keys. Let’s just try to have fun and be respectful ones.

p.s. The monkeys comment was not intended to spark a creationist debate ; )"

There's nothing you've written that I disgree with. . . and I don't happen to regard the smile icon idea as "stupid or juvenile".  It's said the greatest percentage of communication is non-verbal, so it's not difficult to see how "monkees with keyboards" could manage to do a pretty good job of misunderstanding one-another. 

Having said that, there are certain people here who repeatedly make the same type of condescending comments to others and apparently find it entertaining to do so. Their behavior does not help matters. 
"Doing one’s job is caring, providing useful and helpful audio commentary is being caring; when it turns to often being arrogant and belittling members on an audio forum that is not caring"

+1 
"Trying to make the world better by pushing your ideas, telling others what to do, or worst of all censoring and controlling, is like a monkey trying to fix a helicopter with a hammer. Give it up. What you can do however is straighten up and fly right yourself. You know your room is a mess. Go clean your room".

Does this mean we can look forward to you "giving it up" or does your advice only apply to the rest of us?