How to Listen ??

i am mostly a newbie to all the audiophile stuff..
but i've been a sound/music lover all my life ..

so i wanna know .. HOW do you guys listen??

what to look for..

i can't understand how u can see the minor differences between similar amps or speakers..

and i have a lot of difficulties with attributes..

is it like race driving ?

what should i do to develop more my listening sense...

thank you all :)
I try NOT to *listen* and in particular I try to avoid the trap of watching the music but rather sense how I respond to the music being presented.
I judge a component and systems by their ability to move me emotionally,how well they communicate meanings, how they help me to appreciate and understand the intentions of the artist,their skill and technique as well as the way that the performers relate to one another and to the music itself.
I judge components also by their ability to suspend disbelief and dissappear.
A good system/component should effectively become *invisible*.It should not call attention to itself by reminding you that it is a device that makes *musical* sounds or produces impressive effects.
It must remind me and hopefully fool me, into believing that I am listening to living,breathing Music.
It should not behave like a sonic pinball machine or static aural sculpture .
If the component/system doesn't pass these initial tests I move on.
Only,if it can capture the essence and spirit of the performance, will I listen for the more technical aspects of why the system makes me respond, such as how it times and paces; the dynamic contrasts (both macro and micro);note shapes;the tonal, timbral, harmonic and textural features and the transparency, ease, flow and naturallness of the presentation.

Go pick up the book "The complete guide to high end audio". Awesome book that will help you learn the in's and out's of the audiophile universe.'ll come step by step. The best is to buy something that you won't feel negative for a certain period of time before you'll realize you need to upgrade. Meaning If you go for the very basic lo to mid-end you might very soon want to upgrade it.
First thing for me was details and clean sond(Creek 4330R)then I felt that dynamics were not as good as you would expect from fusion jazz or jazz-rock. It has guts to push the driver but doesn't have guts to stop it. Drum sounded longer than it had to sound as well as base -- totally uncontrolled.
Second thing was Bryston 3b-st Well detailed, dynamic, a great driver, but no warmth in mid-range and highs are rather harsh than detailed.
Third thing selling Bryston to get TUBES preferably with "balls".
The Chesky label makes a very useful compilation/demo disc that is useful for highlighting many of the sonic attributes of audio reproduction. I suggest you spend some time with a good dealer who can demonstrate a number of systems and point out their strenghts and weaknesses.
Go buy yourself a season pass to a symphony in your area.. listen carefully to what "real" instruments sound like.. woodwinds, brass, massed strings, etc. remember that, then go listen at a shop and see if it sounds "real" ... as opposed to "tissy", bright, boomy or otherwise different from reality.
One good thing to do is to spend a reasonable time listening to different types of equipment (tubes, cool and warm, vs solid state; speakers of different design principles(stats, horns, dynamics, planars, line arrays); and possibly "cheap vs expensive", before diving in. The purpose is to get a sense of the different presentations possible in audio. You can use all of your local audio shops for this - I personally figure every audio shop owes me an hour or two of free listening time, but I will not take a dealer's time beyond this if I'm not serious about buying from him.
Ken's description above is a good mental position to take, and keeps the process fun and enjoyable.
The ear-training that every audio-type develops amounts to learning to listen analytically to sound. It comes mainly from extensive, detailed A/B'ing and is equally a skill and a curse. After years of listening, I want musicality first but even when its there, my 20-20 ears keep complaining about trivia.
Some very good thoughts here,and here is my two cents. On your current system,or system that gets changed the least whatever, listen to a recording that not only you think is good, but that you think you know every note of. You know, the one you would have to have on an island by yourself.
Now, substitute a component and listen. If you hear differences, what are they? And if all of a sudden you going
"wow, I didn't know that was 2 guitars", or "Damn, she breathes awfully heavy" when your hearing these kinds of differences, its probably a better piece of gear,or a better system.
And live music, always. And again, make sure its something you know recording wise. Nothing beats live music as far as comparision, especially in an acoustic enviroment. If your a heavy metal or electronic music guy, a little tougher because a lot of what you are hearing is not generated acoustically, but electronically. But if you have a female vocalist you really like playing and acoustic set(Hearts last tour for example)if you listen, you will hear nuances in their voices that you will be able to pick up the next time you listen at home.
If you play yourself, it can be a lot harder. I live in Nashville, and some really great musicans here have sound systems that are lacking. I have learned a lot of musicians will hear exactly what they want to, because they have it embedded in their head that way, so definitely try to avoid listening to recordings of yourself when trying to judge a particular piece of gear.
Last point though, Spend more of your time listening and enjoying rather than listening and wondering. You will live longer, and save a ton of money.
i started into this trap 2 years ago. started by buying a new amp, and i was lost after that. hearing how changing different components affects the sound can get you going. for me, it's actually fun now. but the more you listen, the more you hear. you'll start to hear little hisses or hums, or maybe the bass won't sound as tight as you want it to. for example, after listening in my system for a few weeks even, i went to a friends house and heard the same recording on a very good system, but different from mine. the bass sounded washy, things were vibrating, the highs shrilled and made me cringe. i'm not a snob or anything, but even this pricey system just sounded different to me. i realized it's actually true, that even changing speaker position and yes, even changing interconnects and power cords can affect sound quality. true, many of these changes may be subtle, but if it's enough to let you enjoy your music or theatre more, then for me it's usually worth it. problem is, it can get very costly! i see audio a lot like wine - if you're happy with the cheap wine, and it tastes good to you, then drink it. but once you start drinking 1986 chateau haut brion or view telegraphe, you'll have trouble going back to the cheap stuff ever again. once you start listening to high end gear, it'll ruin you for the low fi forever... maybe that's for the best tho. good luck!
A lot of good advice here but just rememebr to trust your own ears. Get what ever you think sounds best. Dont get lost in the reveiws, gimics, specifications, opinions of others, or even the price tag. Also know that your opinion will probably change the more you listen. That growth is have the fun.
Like Bruce Lee said, "Don't think! Feeeel!"

Don't try to listen analytically, that's the job of reviewers. Just sit and enjoy.

Does the singer touch your heart? Does the saxophonist move your soul? Do you ever get transported to a far off place and forget that electromagnetic devices are sitting in front of you? That's the wonder of truly musical experience.

It's only when I'm startled back into reality by an offending sonic quality or unmoved by emotion that I think about the SOURCE of the sound.
I'm with Gunbei. How sound makes me feel is a big part of what makes listening time satisfying for me. I am required to think for most of the day. If my system is making me think about sound, it isn't doing what I've chosen to pay so much to accomplish, i.e. to feel fulfillment and enjoyment. So, I listen to how I'm feeling. Good feeling, good component, bad feeling, bad component -- for me. Same for tweaks.

Feelings might be even more subjective than ears, so I'm rarely surprised anymore that there is so much variance in opinions about which toys sound good and which don't. All the arguing, though, what's that about? Boy, if someone's flying off the handle all the time, do you think I'd be wise to check out their favorite components? :-)
First, NEVER listen to the $50k system first.
2nd, have your dlr listen to the budget system first.
- Did you like it? How much time did you spend in front of it?

Listen to that system with your music. Did it sound as good with the music they provided?

When you have auditioned a few budget systems, then listen to the best system they have. Did you like it that much better?

Then ask them to allow a home audition.

Why buy the Ferrari if you really liked the Viper?
ok thank you ..
theese are all great comments..
i think that the thing to retain,
and it been the same thing in all questions i've asked,
is to listen with my ears to what i like and what i don't like..and feel the sound
so i think i'll stock with this and try to apply that and FEEL the music i like in the system i try :)


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aahhh.... music to a girl's ears..... men having a discussion on how to listen :~}
If you don't play an instrument then spend a bunch of time in small pubs, coffee houses or jazz clubs listening to acoustic music.......When you find a system that transports you back to the club experience buy it........