What do you do when the kids come along?

I agree with hdm. I have 2 boys 5 and 8. I never stopped the music when they went to bed and they both sleep whether it is on or not. My wife and I also taught them what was off limits, which they both learned before they were able to walk. We have never had a problem with them handling anything including the turntable. My 8 year old is now able to run the system without me worrying (except the turntable). We found the key is to be consistant with the kids on your rules and don't compromise.

I have four kids ages 11, 14, 17, 19. I have been an audiophile for many years.
A) Get a sturdy and high stand. It wasn't my kids (of course) that presented a problem, it was their little friends that posed the greatest danger.
B) Select speakers that are fingerprint and finger-poking friendly. Watch out for speakers on tall flimsy stands.
C) Train them very early. Like you do when they're around a hot stove, lawn mower or swimming pool.
D) As they grow older, teach them to listen and enjoy.
E) As they grow, pass down older equipment. It presents a great excuse to upgrade!

At my age I don't see kids anytime soon!! Though I think most of what was said here sounds familiar ;) I have to Girlfriend proof my system which I think is enough trouble!

Bwyoung-Your oldest is only a year younger then me!!

I have 3 boys, ages 11, 14 and 17. I find the best audio 'tweak' is duct tape. Inexpensive, and worth every penny.
Seriously, you will need your wife to understand how important this hobby is to you. If she stays home with the children, like mine did, she can teach them from the time they're in diapers, what is 'not to be touched'. I've never had any problems (knock wood). My wife knew that my gear was expensive, she didn't want me to spend more money, so she had a vested interest in helping to protect my equipment.

John

I too agree with Hdm's advice. Although my sons bedroom is next to my audio system, I continued to play music as though he never came along.

Now that he is 16 (as of 5 days ago) we often listen together. I had to eject a new CD from my computer that he bought today, he wanted to share it with me before I logged onto Audiogon.

My point? Share your music with your child. You love them both and later the child will not only respect you for your passion, they will share it with you.