I am in the low watts camp. When I lived in NYC Sound by Singer was my dealer and sometimes High End luminaries would be in the store; on one occasion it was Kevin Hayes of VAC. At the time I had a Ren 70/70 in my VT home and a 30/30 in NYC.
He opined that (at the time) the 30/30 was his best sounding amp! However, he could not make any money selling them as few people would pay enough for a 30 watt amplifier.
My speakers are 87 dB at 1 meter for 2.83 volts - 84+ dB at my listening position. That is 2 watts into 4 ohms. My 2A3 Elekit amp, good for almost 4 watts, allowed 87 dB - loud enough for most listening. To forestall comments on the 3dB drop off between 1 and 3 meters the square law drop off is for point sources, radiating spherically, not cone drivers.
For a while I was using a C-J 62 Special Edition - that is a very good amp with many wonderful qualities, and I could blast Mahler but missed something that the 2A3s had.
I am now breaking in a PP 2A3 - good for 14 (gorgeous) watts and 90 dB plus of I want. This amp is (probably) end game and I'll be posting about the journey to acquire the amp.