I have a couple suggestions. This sounds like a big project that will involve hundreds of dollars and dozens of hours.
- I highly recommend that you run Room EQ Wizard to get a baseline of where you are at before adding more treatment. The software is free and the calibrated mic is under $200.
- Look at companies that provide sound absorbing curtains. There is a lot of detailed information about the materials and construction they use. It may give you some ideas about making your own or it may lead you to purchase a manufactured product.
- Take the advice of @ghdprentice and experiment with heavy blankets before making curtains. Sound absorption is tricky and you may not like the result.

