@cathat What speakers are you running? Edge diffraction and some tweeters can cause brightness and harshness. Treating the baffles and areas around the tweeters can help if those are causes. Other sources can be poor quality connections and crossover parts...tougher to fix, but possible if you're ambitious. Cleaning up the signal path is worth pursuing IME vs trying to just EQ the problem up or down.
Many DSP units offer both graphic EQs and parametric EQs, along with a bunch of other useful features. I use DSP with a PEQ on my subs and woofers in a bi-amp setup to cut room nodes only in the lower regions, but it’s not even in the signal path for mid and high frequency at all.

