I didn’t intend to hurt his feelings - only to provide some constructive criticism.
I guess it can be fun either way, and thanks for your response.
My tone may be harsh, but this is when people listen to me. It was honest feedback.
You don’t have to feel that way. I don’t have an ego that prevents me from interacting or spending time who earn less money than me, or even poor people. I donate to charities often, and even have close friends who live in tiny bungalows and drive cheap cars.
What’s amazing about them though; is they are consistently happy, very polite, and overall a joy to be around. When we go out to restaurants, I always offer to pay; but they have often paid for everything just as soon as I got back to the table from the restroom and told me not to worry about it - I’ve got this my friend, they say.
They are not that concerned about money and some of them; despite having small houses and inexpensive cars and a small investment portfolio + very little disposable incomes have built amazing audio systems with consistent effort and dedication over many years. Slow and steady, like the tortoise that wins the race...
The saying goes - find what you love, and let it kill you.
I can rephrase that: Find what you love, and let it set you free.
They are living examples of that philosophy.
Meanwhile, some of my well of friends with a net worth close to mine are stingy and never offer to pay at restaurants. Many of them are also coupon clippers and can’t visit a grocery store without a binder full of them. Nearly every word that comes out of their mouths is about saving money and investment portfolios.

